Godaddy server/SQL Management studio connection question

Hello,

I just got a personal site with godaddy that I would like to be able to connect to using SQL Server management studio

I try to connection using

Server Name: sdhfuh928323984ujf.phx3.secureserver.net

authentication: sql server

Username: my username

password: my password

Then it tries to connect and gives me an error that I can't and remote connections may not be allowed.

I followed the directions it gave and turned on remote connections, restarted the server, but I still get the error.

any ideas?

It might be a firewall issue.